First, I told you about giving effective directions, then I told you what happened when we stopped punishing bad behavior and started praising good behavior. Now, let's take praise a step further to rewarding. We set up a reward system for Nathan to help motivate him to get things done- like homework and getting ready for school.
This is a sample reward chart some other parents in my class used. It breaks down behaviors/tasks into easy understand steps |
This is Nathan's reward chart. We reward him for just about everything he has to do during the day. |
Once you decide what behaviors you want to work on, then you need to talk to your child about the chart. Choose a calm day and place to explain the new point chart. Start by talking to your child about the rewards he will be able to earn. Ask if he has any suggestions for other prizes. Go through the chart and explain how many points he can earn for each behavior and how he can get some prizes immediately or save up for a bigger prize! Be enthusiastic! Rewards and prizes are fun! Next practice the behavior with your child. Model what you want him to do, then have him do it. He even earns rewards for practicing! Don't just practice once, practice again and again to get him used to the system and to help him earn rewards faster!
Now, you're ready to get started! Good luck, you can do this. It's not easy, but in the long run it will be worth it.
Thank you for posting this tip Becky. This behavior chart sounds like a good idea. I hope it works out for other children as well.
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